The Essence of Healing and Growth

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The Search for Truth

If you are seeking the Truth, it is because something in your life is driving you to do so. What is that “Something”? It is a sense of something incomplete – something missing. But do you have any idea exactly what it is that you are missing? I used to say “I am seeking the Truth”. But here is a question you may not yet have considered: “what will you do when you find the right answers?” That is something worth considering, but first, let’s consider this:

How do you propose to find the answers you seek? Read piles of books? Follow a spiritual path? Attend meetings? Meditate for 50 years? Study near-death experiences? Study and practice Life between Lives regressions? Train and practice as a master energy healer? Attend personal growth seminars? Become a facilitator? Listen to channelings from Archangels, Ascended masters, Brotherhoods of Light and other “higher beings”?

What I Found After Half a Century

I did all of that – for more than half a century. As far as answering my questions is concerned, it worked. I have no more questions left. Now I can answer all your questions in under a minute. Here it is; my conclusion – a lifetime’s worth of sincere seeking and spiritual practice condensed into a single paragraph:

You came from Divine Love; you will return to Divine Love; your very essence – your higher self – IS Divine Love. When Divine Love becomes the central pillar and guiding principle of your life, nothing is missing, and nothing is a problem any more. You will have no peace until you realise yourself as Divine Love.

What do you want more of in your life? More love? You get back what you give out, so if it’s more love you want, give out more love. But you can’t give what you don’t have, so where will you get more love to give out?

The Answer

The answer is simple. Learn how to be your higher self, because, as I just said, the essence of your higher self is Divine Love. When you realise yourself as Divine Love, you can only ever give out Love. But – how do you get there?

You could do what I did – spend your life seeking the truth and striving to raise your vibrations. I am not that arrogant as to think you would come to the same conclusion as me, but let’s look ahead and be practical. Assuming you DO come to a conclusion of your own, how would that serve you? Would you be any better off for it? Will it make any difference to how you experience life?

Does Knowledge Really Help?

I don’t believe so, because all my seeking has only confirmed what people are constantly being told in their NDE’s – life is not about collecting knowledge, it is about BEING, and the best state of being is your higher self state. So the most important question is, how do you become your higher self?

We humans are all living in an energetic continuum, somewhere between the two extremes of fear and love. Our experience of life depends entirely upon where we are in this continuum. More Love = less fear; less fear = more love. Love contains all the wonderful qualities we seek – Joy, Peace, Wisdom, Bliss, Compassion, Healing, Consciousness, and of course, direct connection to the Divine.

Fear can only exist in the absence of love. Just as darkness disappears when the sun rises, so does fear disappear when Divine Love appears.

Let’s Get Practical

So let’s get practical. Here is what we have to work with. Every thought has its own frequency, and it triggers in us an equivalent feeling/emotion. The closer to fear, the lower the frequency; the closer to Love, the higher the frequency. To improve our experience of life, we have only to improve the quality of our thoughts.

That is easy to say, but not so easy to do, as you may have already found out. We are creatures of habit, and that applies to our thought patterns even more than to anything else about us.

Traditional Approaches

Changing the quality of our thoughts is not the work of a day or two, and it is not accomplished by repeating affirmations, by praying, or worship. It is not done by reading the right books or watching the right videos, nor yet about joining the right organisation.

All of those approaches have the same drawback. They offer only temporary uplift. No matter how great a peak experience you may have, you will eventually end up at home, alone with yourself again. Inner growth is an entirely personal, inner journey. Meditation helps, but even meditation by itself is not enough, as decades of meditating finally taught me.

The Real Problem

The problem is easily described. We have obstacles or blockages that stand in our way. They take the form of resistance, dissatisfaction, and unfulfilled desires.

We resist what we don’t know because we don’t feel safe. It is a symptom of something bigger – we cannot trust the process of life; in fact, we cannot even trust our own thoughts.

We desire what we don’t have, because we hope that getting the right thing, or person, will make us feel complete. Please don’t waste the rest of your life trapped in resistance and looking outside of yourself for completeness.

Your Body Tells You

Your own body is the litmus test. If you are holding tension somewhere in your body, that is a sign that you are resisting something. You hold resistance because there is something you are afraid to accept.

Resist long enough and you will manifest illnesses or pain. Continue resisting and you will manifest disease. Continue resisting long enough and the disease you manifest could turn fatal.

Proof from NDE’s

The NDE of Anita Moorjani illustrates this beautifully. She died of cancer, but after she was returned to her body free from the negativity that had been consuming her, the cancer literally disappeared, and it did so in a remarkably short time. Her experience is by no means the only one of this nature.

Mellen Thomas Benedict died of brain cancer and had a similar outcome. He realised that his negative attitude towards the human race had caused his illness, and when he returned to his body full of love for humanity, it was so obvious to him that his cancer could not survive that he didn’t feel the need for tests. He only went for tests, which indeed confirmed its absence, to satisfy those around him.

What About You?

But let’s get back to you. As Einstein is said to have written “you can’t resolve a problem using the same thinking that created it”. The message we can draw from this saying is that our inner obstacles are the result of unhelpful attitudes and beliefs we are holding. As long as we continue to hold them, nothing will change.

Identify and rectify them, and you will find the wholeness you crave. It is never a matter of finding or acquiring something that is missing. Nothing is missing. You are complete already. It is only a matter of removing what stands in the way of realising that.

Fear is the Underlying Issue

Here is what makes this tricky to achieve: because tension, desires and resistance are based in fear, they keep you trapped in a low-frequency loop. Your lowered frequency cuts you off from your higher self and its ability to guide you. You cannot hear its “still small voice” so you are unable to receive inner guidance and get into flow with your life.

Let me be honest with you. If you are determined enough, hard-working enough, and patient enough, you will probably be able to resolve most of these issues by yourself. But it is hard to do, and extremely slow, because you are trapped in unhelpful, circular thought patterns that keep you stuck. The biggest issue is that you can’t see them because you are stuck inside them.

Maybe You Need My Help

This is where a neutral outsider can help you. It is much easier to break free when you have the help of someone who has learned how to do so, especially when they are skilled in helping you do it.

Together, you and I can uncover and resolve the cause of your disempowering patterns in a fraction of the time it would otherwise take. It still requires work, commitment and and dedication, but at least you won’t be all alone, working in the darkIf that sounds good to you, you can book a free discovery session on the calendar below.

I have many tried and trusted options in my “healing tool box”, but far and away the most effective help I can offer is the guidance I get while tuning in intuitively to your needs.

The next question is – “do you believe I can do what I say?” I do, but my opinion is obviously biased, so take a look at what these people have to say about my work, then if you are ready, book a free discovery session on the calendar at the bottom of the page so you can form your own impression.

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